2015—a new year and a new beginning. Maybe you’re writing new year’s resolutions and kicking yourself for the failures of 2014. Maybe you’re contemplating new adventures or maybe the risks scare you away from adventure. Success would taste so sweet, but fear’s bitter taste can knot your stomach. Wouldn’t you like a guarantee that you WILL NOT FAIL?
These 3 secrets will almost guarantee that you will never fail again.
1. Never try anything new.
When you try new things you lack the experience to pull them off perfectly. You’ll probably make mistakes and embarrass yourself. And your chances for failure are quite high. Stick with things you already know how to do well.
2. Never try anything hard.
Attempt only those tasks which you know to be well within your range of capabilities. That way you know that, with a minimum of effort, you can do the job well.
3. Never try anything risky.
Don’t do anything until you’re quite sure it will work. Otherwise you just set yourself up for failure. And never try anything of which people might disapprove. If you do, you may work hard and only receive criticism in return. Criticism is never fun. It makes you feel you’ve failed even if you haven’t. So stay away from risky jobs. Just be content with who you are now. Quit trying to change.
If you follow these three rules you may never fail again. Aim at nothing, and you’ll hit it every time.
Of course, as you avoid failure, you will probably also eliminate the chances of any kind of significant success. Easy success carries its own high price tag. Before you give up on failure you may want to see if you have underestimated its merits.
Picture the great artist painting in her studio. With seemingly little effort she splashes a new masterpiece onto plain canvas. Empty walls surround her, for her works sell as fast as she can paint them. They bear no resemblance to her first work when, at age one, she scrawled a few colors onto a page. Only a mother could love that drawing. In second grade her best horse picture drew great praise from her teacher. But however well her picture compared to the works of other second graders, the art world would have refused the slightest glance at it. As she grew she improved, but for each picture she displayed, she hid a notebook of drawings she wouldn’t let anyone see. As she reached adulthood her work showed evidence of real genius. Yet even then the critics belittled her work, criticizing her technique, magnifying each supposed flaw. Now we see the artist’s great success. Yet her effortless strokes of paint hide each failure that she evaluated and learned from. Without the failures, the success would have been impossible.
Unseen failures are the raw material of almost all success.
A great photographer snaps lots of pictures and only displays the good ones.
A great writer has lots of ideas and knows how to sort the good ones from the bad.
A great preacher doesn’t happen to have any tapes of his first sermons.
A great gymnast owes a debt of gratitude to the healing process.
You see, failure also goes by other names such as “learning” and “growth.” The first attempt at anything new, hard, or risky, is bound to be far from perfect. Yet as we evaluate our failures, learn from them, and do better the next time, we improve our abilities.
Some people, however, stop with their first awkward attempt, assuming that they are not “called” or “gifted” for such a task. In such a case, failure can go by no other name.
Is God asking you to do some new thing today? Are your afraid to try because you are afraid to fail? Then you have proven true the adage that says, “Fear of failure is the father of failure.”
On the other hand, if you grab onto that difficult task as a precious opportunity for growth, you may not do well on your first attempt. So ask God to help you learn from your failures and try again. Then you’ll probably find that you won’t do too well your second time either. Yet as you continue to try, evaluate, and change, you’ll soon find yourself learning and growing. You’ll experience the joy of learning to trust God and serve Him better. People may criticize you, but you can know the joy of the Heavenly Father’s smile on you. Remember God is pleased by our best efforts, even though they fall short of perfection.
If you’re not failing at anything, you’re probably not trying to do anything very significant. If, on the other hand, you’re turning failure into learning and growth, you’ve learned a secret. Sometimes failure isn’t so bad after all.
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