- Is this the man God wants me to marry?
- Is he a Christian?
- Is he growing as a Christian and becoming a spiritual leader?
- Are the things that are most important to me also important to him?
- Do we share common goals, dreams, and values?
- Do we share similar backgrounds? If not, are we prepared to face the differences?
- Are we going the same direction?
- Do our personalities work well together?
- Have we built a strong friendship together?
- Can I trust and respect him?
- Are we stronger together than we are apart?
- Do our parents and trusted Christian friends approve of our relationship? Why or why not?
- Does our relationship make good sense as well as bring us happiness?
- Have we given enough time for our relationship to be sure God is leading us into marriage?
- Are we both convinced God is leading us into a lifetime relationship?
